Couples Talk About Money – Keep your money relationship healthy by By Kim Crewe
After sex and chores, money is the next biggest cause of arguments between couples. So, what are the best ways that you can ensure that money doesn’t become the big rift in your relationship?
To be financially healthy as a couple it is really important to understand one another’s money histories. Most of us have some quite unhelpful and untrue beliefs about our relationship with money from our childhood experience.
Put aside a good chunk of time, find yourselves some large sheets of paper and plot the timeline of your life. Add the key people, parents, other family members and anyone else of influence. Put a £ or $ sign by the ones who had a money message for you. Once you have both finished then take turns in talking through your timeline, focus on the money messages, do this without interruption and then change over.
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Money is one of the top reasons why couples break up, so it's vital that you and your money are on the same page when it comes to talking about money.
Now when talking to your honey about the money, pick a neutral space. For example, a restaurant, park, bar or cafe i.e. out of the house where you can have wine or a coffee. Be relaxed and talk about these questions open & calmly.